Making the right dog-and-family match is one of the most challenging, critical, and rewarding parts of dog rescue work. We’ve been incredibly lucky to place our past fosters in great forever-homes, and last week we felt that same rush again, only when Love-A-Bull placed Pocket Petunia and her foster home.
After a night in our home (we played emergency foster), it was clear that Petunia needed something different. We knew we were not setting her up to succeed. The crate-and-rotate routine we had to enforce brought out Petunia’s less charming qualities. At the top of the list: some stress-induced dog-reactivity, and a compulsive desire to fingerpaint with her own waste after eliminating in her crate (which she did every time she was crated).
We knew right away that these issues were likely caused by the strict and stressful regimen we were imposing on the poor girl, who had just finished a long journey and had no clue what was going on. She needed more freedom and more space, which we weren’t able to offer under such time constraints.
When Petunia and I met Jenn, we had a sense that Petunia would succeed with her. Jenn has two other young, active dogs who play nicely with others and could (hopefully) show Petunia the ropes. She has two young kids who love to help out with enrichment activities for new foster dogs. Jenn was willing to work on the crating issue and has concrete floors in her house that are easy to clean up, plus the patience of a saint to deal with frequent clean-up.
Still, we prepared her for the worst. We told her there would likely be many crate accidents and that dog integration could take weeks to do successfully.
Boy were we thrilled when, after 24 hours, we got this email:
“Hi Aleks,
How are you? We are doing great. I’ve never seen a dog smile so much. Her little body is going to lift off when she gets going wagging and flashing that humongous grin. The integration is done. We took our first walk this morning. I had a couple of friends help me walk her and my two youngsters. We walked 2 miles on this great nature trail and by the end, I was walking all 3 of them with grins and wags. No growling, no aggression of any kind. They respectfully smelled, ran circles and then got into the walk. Eventually, I let my two off leash to splash in the creek and even with just Petunia still on the leash, no issues at all. She had a great time and loved the water. All 3 rode in the back of the car together and since then, they have been a threesome. Oh!!! AND, she has only gone to the bathroom outside today. I have her on a schedule and if I stay out there long enough, she will smell around, find the right spot and when I start praising her little tail wags so hopefully we are making new connections.
She continues to eat like a horse. I got one of those training meat logs and we just had a session. No big training, just a little sit and focus on the treat. We do this with all three dogs and they all line up and sit still to get a reward. I like this because it showed me that even with high value treats, she does not have food aggression in close proximity to the other dogs. I’m still trying to help adjust her tolerance. You can see that she is still trying to figure out what she should react to but it is coming along wonderfully.
I can’t thank you enough for the wonderful support system you guys have. Please let me know if I am missing anything. Thanks Aleks!
Jenn”
Two days later I hopped in the car for a visit to little Petunia and her amazing foster family. I got a little teary meeting this brand-new Petunia — happy, confident, playful, with not a care in the world.
Thanks, Jenn and Petunia, for reminding us of the power of the right match!
Love and a Six-Foot Leash 
The energy from those pup and human smiles carried all the way up to my New York neighborhood! Thanks.
Oh my goodness! Finding that right fit is so very important. It’s great that you were able to even temporarily find the right fit for her. Blooming is a beautiful thing!
SUPERB. A triangle of terrificness. Not to exclude the beautiful human.
Love that photo of Petunia playing with the boxer. They look like a great trio!
Wow this is awesome! I love this trio. It always interests me when a pup acts like a totally different dog.
This is so heartwarming!! Petunia is a lucky girl to have crossed paths with such nice humans!
It’s always so great to see a dog blossoming under the care of the RIGHT person. It doesn’t always work out the first time, but as long as we as guardians work hard to find them, a dog will get their perfect match. Thank you for all the work you do!!
great news–for everyone! i have a feeling jenn will be a part of many wonderful fosters’ stories. 🙂
You made a great decision with Petunia, and her foster mom sounds perfect! I’m glad she’s still shared pictures!
Awesome! So glad to see this little cutie found her place in the world for now. Jenn sounds amazing!
This is all so heartwarming! However, I am wondering how difficult it is for the dog to leave the foster home after all that bonding, and going to a forever home. Difficult for the foster parent too. Thhe reason I ask is that I lost my golden and my lab last year, and inquired about being a golden foster. However, in my interview I couldn’t stop crying, so they thought I wasn’t ready yet (obviously). I also lost my siamese cat last year. Anyway, I think if I had a foster, I would never want to part with them! I know that fosters are special people, and I admire you so much! Also, I used to be terrified of pitbulls, but I can see they are nice dogs here.
The power of the right match…. is incredible. We had the same issues with Daisy (the puppy who also eliminated in her crate constantly…hence all the baths! and UPS/Rayven)… Not every dog is for every home/foster home. Yay for being true to yourself and her and committing to the perfect match! 🙂
What a good post. It sure is true how the importance of a good match for both the pup and the family. Looking forward to Petunia updates
Benny & Lily
Yep, definitely all about the right match – foster homes and forever homes! Thanks for the update. So great to see Petunia is doing well.
Oh, that’s a wonderful update! I’m so happy for Petunia–it’s so heartwarming when dogs come together, even when one has had such a rough go of it.
I am extremely happy for her! You are an angel!!
Alessandra Migliorini
http://www.petofmylife.com
That is so great! 🙂
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